Eat the dessert first

“life is too short and unpredictable so eat the dessert first…” Anonymous You know how when you go to a buffet 😋 you have the opportunity to eat 3 different kinds of meals viz: appetizers, main dish, dessert . Which of the 3 is your favorite? Be honest ✋️🙂. (Tbh sometimes the ice cream 🍦 READ MORE

Slow down to go fast

Clearly we can’t control what happens to us, but we can control how we respond to it. There’s this notion that everyone has to be ‘always-on’; it’s the ‘go-go-go’ mentality that leaves no room to slow down especially to reflect on and process what’s happening . I had subscribed to that notion at some point READ MORE

Exploring your passions [for purpose]

“if you can’t figure out your purpose then figure out your passion as your passion will lead to your purpose” ~ T. D. Jakes What are you passionate about? What activities do you do that simply just light you up? 😃 If you had asked me these questions sometime ago honestly it usually took me READ MORE

Stay on your own lane

“The grass isn’t necessarily greener on the other side. It’s greener where it is watered the most” One thing most people may not know about me is that while in secondary/high school, I took part in track and field events/games specifically short-distance races like 200m and 200m × 4 (I.e. relay races). 🏃‍♂️ (now you READ MORE

Discover & develop your strengths

“Work on your strengths until your weaknesses become irrelevant.” ~ John C. Maxwell When was the last time you heard someone advice you to discover or develop your strengths? 💪 But how many times do you hear folks say, “work on your weaknesses” ? 1 Million times , right? That’s no wonder one would focus READ MORE

Your hero’s journey. Will you answer the call?

“Each one of us has a call/prompting to get started on that hero’s journey aka life’s purpose/mission. How we respond to it determines a lot about our legacy and contribution to the world.” Do you know what adventure movies like Harry Potter, Lord of the rings, Spider man (even Shriek 😄) , all have in READ MORE

Personality tests (know thyself)

“…personality tests (and personality itself ) aren’t permanent … In the sense that they only give a snapshot of a person’s behaviors.“ A great way to get to understand yourself better is doing personality tests 👌 One thing I’ve found valuable about personality tests is that they explain why we do what we do I.e. READ MORE

Know thyself!! (why it matters)

“Know yourself so you can accept and love yourself truly. Only then can you become confident becoming your true self” When I think about what could happen when we lose sight of and dont know who we are, I am reminded of Simba from the Lion King (Roooaaarrrr!! 🦁 ) After a major tragedy hit READ MORE

How to address your limiting beliefs

“Until we confront and tackle those limiting beliefs , they’ll continue to gain control over us and keep us stagnant” Do you have limiting beliefs? 🤔 Those thought patterns that are there to keep you stuck and deter you from making progress towards achieving your goals? The same ones that say that:– you’re not good READ MORE

Focus on your purpose not your problems

“Purpose is what gives our lives meaning .” Humankind has always been on the pursuit of true happiness & joy. That’s the reason we do what we do …. because we want to be happy 😊 . The good thing is that we are in charge of and responsible for our happiness /joy. Someone once READ MORE