Getting honest feedback from the “mirrors”

Can you imagine what it will feel like to not have mirrorsπŸͺž? 😟 You get dressed in the morning or at some other time in preparation for an occasion but no way to get feedback on your physical appearance from mirror mirror on the wall πŸ˜„ (scary to think about eh!) That’s how valuable it READ MORE

Your ‘one year later’ story

“What fear do you need to start facing such that the ‘one year later’ story you tell yourself and others will be very beautiful and victorious ?“ Slightly over 2 years ago, I made up my mind to face one of my biggest fears 😨…posting ‘solo/peptalk’ videos online . πŸ˜„ So, I had struggled with READ MORE

What are you core values?

core values help guide our decision making and hence the course of our lives. Core values!! What are they and how valuable are they? πŸ€” One thing is certain… core values help guide our decision making and hence the course of our lives.(we’re make decisions virtually everyday right?) Without recognizing and sticking to our core READ MORE

Eat the dessert first

“life is too short and unpredictable so eat the dessert first…” Anonymous You know how when you go to a buffet πŸ˜‹ you have the opportunity to eat 3 different kinds of meals viz: appetizers, main dish, dessert . Which of the 3 is your favorite? Be honest βœ‹οΈπŸ™‚. (Tbh sometimes the ice cream 🍦 READ MORE

Slow down to go fast

Clearly we can’t control what happens to us, but we can control how we respond to it. There’s this notion that everyone has to be ‘always-on’; it’s the ‘go-go-go’ mentality that leaves no room to slow down especially to reflect on and process what’s happening . I had subscribed to that notion at some point READ MORE

Exploring your passions [for purpose]

“if you can’t figure out your purpose then figure out your passion as your passion will lead to your purpose” ~ T. D. Jakes What are you passionate about? What activities do you do that simply just light you up? πŸ˜ƒ If you had asked me these questions sometime ago honestly it usually took me READ MORE

Stay on your own lane

“The grass isn’t necessarily greener on the other side. It’s greener where it is watered the most” One thing most people may not know about me is that while in secondary/high school, I took part in track and field events/games specifically short-distance races like 200m and 200m Γ— 4 (I.e. relay races). πŸƒβ€β™‚οΈ (now you READ MORE

Discover & develop your strengths

“Work on your strengths until your weaknesses become irrelevant.” ~ John C. Maxwell When was the last time you heard someone advice you to discover or develop your strengths? πŸ’ͺ But how many times do you hear folks say, “work on your weaknesses” ? 1 Million times , right? That’s no wonder one would focus READ MORE

Your hero’s journey. Will you answer the call?

“Each one of us has a call/prompting to get started on that hero’s journey aka life’s purpose/mission. How we respond to it determines a lot about our legacy and contribution to the world.” Do you know what adventure movies like Harry Potter, Lord of the rings, Spider man (even Shriek πŸ˜„) , all have in READ MORE

Personality tests (know thyself)

“…personality tests (and personality itself ) aren’t permanent … In the sense that they only give a snapshot of a person’s behaviors.“ A great way to get to understand yourself better is doing personality tests πŸ‘Œ One thing I’ve found valuable about personality tests is that they explain why we do what we do I.e. READ MORE